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Old 04-15-2008, 04:18 PM
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Cpl Richard J. Nelson USMC, 23, Racine, WI (Iraq)

The Department of Defense announced today the death of two Marines who were supporting Operation Iraqi Freedom.

Cpl. Richard J. Nelson, 23, of Racine, Wis.

Lance Cpl. Dean D. Opicka, 29, of Waukesha, Wis.

Both Marines died April 14 while conducting combat operations in Al Anbar province, Iraq. They were both assigned to Marine Forces Reserve’s 2nd Battalion, 24th Marine Regiment, 4th Marine Division, Milwaukee, Wis.

Media with questions about these Marines can contact the Marine Forces Reserve Public Affairs Office at (504) 678-4177.

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Old 04-16-2008, 03:55 AM
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UPDATED at 11:30 p.m.: Local Marine killed in roadside bomb attack

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Tuesday, April 15, 2008 11:43 PM CDT

A Kenosha Marine was killed and a Racine Marine wounded Monday in Iraq’s Al Anbar province when a roadside bomb exploded.

Cpl. Richard “Ricky” Nelson, 23, formerly of Mount Pleasant, died in the attack. Lance Cpl. David Doyle, 21, was wounded, but is expected to stay in Iraq and return to duty.

Also killed was Lance Cpl. Dean Opicka of Waukesha. The three were members of Milwaukee-based Fox Company, said Staff Sgt. Cliff Turley, a public affairs officer.

Doyle of Racine, received multiple injuries to his back, buttocks and legs, said his sister Lorraine Doyle. He is now in a hospital in Tikrit, Iraq. “They are going to watch for infection,” Lorraine said. He will then be returning to service.

Richard Nelson and his wife, Kristen, pose for a photo in September atop the Space Needle in Seattle. They were in the city visiting his brother. Nelson was killed Monday by a roadside bomb in Iraq. Photo courtesy of the Nelson family
“It’s like a code of honor thing. He was friends with both of these guys,” Lorraine said. “I respect his decision, but I really wish he wouldn’t stay there.”

The deaths were the first for the Fox Company’s second tour in Iraq. Five members were killed during a deployment in 2004-2005, including Lance Cpl. Daniel Wyatt of Caledonia. Wyatt was killed on Oct. 12, 2004, by a homemade bomb in the Babil Province of Iraq, south of Baghdad. Wyatt was the first of Racine County’s casualties from the Iraq war.

Nelson spent much of his childhood in Mount Pleasant and attended Kenosha’s Christian Life Academy. He enlisted in the U.S. Marine Reserves in 2004, his mother said. His parents, Lennie and Susan Nelson, moved to Pleasant Prairie in 2006.

“It sounds kind of simple, because this is what most people say when someone dies, but he was a fine young man,” his mother said. “He loved his family, loved his friends and loved God.”

She said this was her son’s second deployment. He spent seven months in Iraq in 2005, she said, and had been in Iraq since January. She said he was due to come home in August or September.

This time, she said he was able to keep in touch with his family, including his wife, Kristen. The high school sweethearts were married April 21, 2007, Susan Nelson said.

“The last four Saturdays he called us. He was at a base,” she said. “On Sunday night he was on a webcam with his wife and a bunch of friends there at his wife’s apartment just having a great time.”

Susan Nelson said her son’s decision to join the military was difficult for her.

“I was sick,” she said. “I wish I could say I was excited, but I wasn’t. I was proud that he wanted to serve his country, but I wasn’t exactly excited. He was signing up for the Marines. I’m a mom. When there’s a war going on you’re not excited your son is signing up for the military.”

With the pride she felt about the work he did came pride for the work the military is doing in the Middle East.

“Ricky deserves to be honored,” Susan Nelson said. “(Deployed personnel) don’t get the honor due them. I think because of all the negative media about Iraq, people don’t recognize the work they do.”

She said her son was assigned to help get officials from place to place.

“He either drove or rode one of the armored vehicles,” she said. “It was 48,000 pounds; a big vehicle he drove. His job was to drive, he’d call them ‘big shots,’ higher-up people who wanted to go from point A to point B.”

Susan Nelson said her son joined the Marine Reserves to help pay for college.

“He was excited about coming back,” she said. “His deployment was scheduled to end in August or September and he was excited to come back and go to school to be an elementary school

Several years ago, his career goals were different, Susan Nelson said.

“At one time he wanted to be a policeman,” she said. “Over time that really changed. When he was home, he was around a bunch of little kids. He has 14 nieces and nephews. The more he was around kids, the more he realized that’s what he wanted to do.”

His family received news that he had been killed Monday evening, when officers came to the door. She said his body is due to arrive in the country tonight. She does not know when they will have funeral arrangements made, but services will be held at First Assembly of God Church in Kenosha.

As word about her son’s death has spread, Susan Nelson said their family and friends have been over to help.

“Last night we heard the news about 10 to six,” she said. “Between that time and 10:30, when we went to bed, during that time there were 33 people here. They’re just all coming to show support. That’s what they’re doing now, just being there.”

The experience has left her with a lesson learned: “Often, you don’t know what to do when someone dies. It’s not a bother. Just go there, hug them, and that’s it.”
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Cpl. Richard “Ricky” Nelson
1984 - 2008

Cpl. Richard “Ricky” Nelson, 23, of Kenosha, passed away on Monday, April 14, 2008, in Al Anbar, Iraq.

Born on Sept. 4, 1984, he was the son of Lennie and Susan (Mercier) Nelson. Ricky was a lifelong Kenosha resident and graduated from Christian Life High School in 2003. On April 21, 2007, he married Kristen Fedler in Winthrop Harbor, Ill. Ricky was enlisted in the U.S. Marines Reserves Fox Company on June 13, 2003. He was currently employed with the Cornerstone Construction Company in Kenosha. Ricky was a member of the First Assembly of God and was an active leader of the Royal Rangers children’s program at the church. He was an outdoorsman enjoying fishing, hunting, and camping. He was an avid Green Bay Packers fan, but first and foremost was very family oriented.

Survivors include his wife, Kristen of Kenosha; his parents, Lennie and Susan Nelson of Pleasant Prairie; five brothers, Scott (Anna Lisa) Nelson of Wheatland, Wis., David (Rindy) Nelson of Bothel, Wash., Todd (Marisela) Nelson of Shakopee, Minn., Mark (Corey) Nelson of Milwaukee, James (Yenni) Nelson of Kenosha; one sister, Katie (Alan) Anzalone of Racine; his maternal grandmother, Edith Mercier of Pleasant Prairie; 14 nieces and nephews; and several aunts, uncles and cousins. He was preceded in death by his paternal grandparents, Leonard and Katherine Nelson; and his maternal grandfather, Vernon Mercier.

Visitation will be held on Wednesday, April 23, at Proko Funeral Home from 5 p.m. until 8 p.m. The funeral service will be held on Thursday, April 24, at First Assembly of God at 11 a.m., with a visitation at First Assembly of God from 10 a.m. until the time of the service. Interment will be held at the Southern Wisconsin Veterans Memorial Cemetery with full military honors immediately after the service.

In lieu of flowers, donations can be made out to the Cpl. Richard Nelson Scholarship Fund through Christian Life School. Proko Funeral Home & Crematory 5111 - 60th Street Visit Ricky’s Online Memorial Book at:
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Remembering Ricky
Faith keeps Pleasant Prairie family strong after Marine’s death in Iraq

It’s been 13 months since the Marines knocked on the front door of Lennie and Susan Nelson’s home in Pleasant Prairie.

Their visit said everything before anyone said a word.

“There were six guys in uniform,” Susan said. “ I opened the door, and I closed the door and walked away.”

Her son, Cpl. Richard “Ricky” Nelson, 23, was killed April 14, 2008, by a roadside bomb that also killed his friend, Lance Cpl. Dean Opicka.

It was one week before Nelson’s first wedding anniversary.

He left behind his wife, Kristen, now 21, his parents and five siblings Scott, Dave, Todd, Mark, James and Katie.

Susan told those Marines the first thing that came to her mind: “I know where Rick is at. He’s with Jesus. My son is spending eternity with the Lord.”

Christian faith has been the bedrock of this tight-knit family where Susan is the administrator at Christian Life School, where all the children went to school, and where Ricky met his bride.

That faith, they said, gave them comfort through those dark first few days, and is what sustains them today.

“We welcome any chance to tell Rick’s story,” said his older brother Dave, pastor of Great Lakes Church.

It’s the story of a good-natured kid with a rebellious streak who refused to get baptized, but began to change after he joined the service.

He was the guy who kept his fellow Marines in stitches with a goofy version of the robot, busted a move to a cheesy ’N Sync song, or spontaneously sang out loud, using the butt of his rifle as an impromptu microphone.

It’s the story of a love affair and those left to carry on without him.

It is Rick’s story.

Romance and marriage
Kristen Nelson was at the end of her freshman year when she fell for Rick the first time she saw him walking down the hall at school. She thought he was the hottest guy there.

The blond senior had a mischievous smile, easily made friends and had already signed up for the Marine Corps reserves. The two started dating after he returned from boot camp.

Rick clashed with his dad during those teen years, but mostly people remember him from high school as someone who didn’t follow the rules but liked to crack jokes. He was the guy who showed up at his school’s alumni Christmas concert wearing a baby blue tuxedo with the collar open.

“He was always trying to make people laugh,” said Colin Flanigan, a schoolmate.

His dad, who served in the Army during Vietnam, would have preferred Ricky to join the Navy.

“Our relationship was strained,” Lennie said. “He was the rebellious teen. But he came back from basic ...”

His dad stops to blink some tears from his eyes.

“... He came back, and I said, ‘I don’t know what they did with my son, but I like this guy.’ They sent him back better than when he was sent in. He lost that cockiness and had grown up. And we got along great after that.”

At 19, Ricky did something his parents wanted him to do sooner — right before his first deployment to Iraq, with his head shaved and dog tags around his neck, he was baptized in Lake Michigan, with family and Kristen by his side.

He gave a videotaped testimonial and farewell to his family and friends.

“Hey Mom and Dad, hey, I’m just out here getting baptized,” he said. “I know you wanted me to do this earlier, but ... ah ... I’m kind of the rebel of the family, we all know that, so I decided to wait until I was 19 and right before I’m ready to leave for Iraq.

“But I appreciate you allowing me to grow up in a Christian home, and encouraging me with my walk with God, and I just want to let you know I’m going to miss you guys while I’m in Iraq.

“I’m going to miss all my friends, and I’m going to be thinking of you constantly. I just appreciate everything you’ve done for me. Love you guys.”

Kristen said the separations made their relationship stronger. She wrote to him every day he was in Iraq.

During Thanksgiving dinner 2006, he proposed. When she graduated from high school, he wore his Marine Corps dress blues for the wedding in her parents’ backyard on April 21, 2007. They were married by his brother, Dave.

Exploring his faith
Even though Dave was nine years older, the two had a close relationship.

As Dave studied to become a pastor and traveled around the country for different Christian events, he usually brought Rick along. When Rick was stationed in San Diego, where Dave was an associate pastor, the two would get together for dinner.

In 2007, Rick and Kristen visited Dave in Seattle where he was the associate pastor of a different kind of Christian church — one with loud guitars and rock music, that dealt with topics aimed at a younger audience, those who had fallen away from church and those who maybe never went before.

“They told me, ‘You’ve got to start a church like this in Kenosha. We don’t have anything like it,’“ Dave said. “And I said, ‘Yeah, I’m thinking about it,’ but there was that fear. It was a big leap.”

Dave was working in Seattle when Rick called him — from Iraq.

“We were on the phone for 30 or 40 minutes,” Dave said. “My last memory of my brother is talking about church and God. Rick told me he had his faith. That’s the last conversation I had with him.”

That first deployment to Iraq in 2004 was a scary one, and the family could hear the concern in Ricky’s voice when he would call back home. For the second deployment, he seemed bored and said he was in a safe place.

Ricky phoned his mom two days before he died.

“He talked about how excited he was to come home, and he knew God had a plan in his life,” Susan said. “He came a long way and talked about his faith.”

Just like the first deployment, Kristen wrote to him every day.

Twelve hours before he died, he called his wife.

And on the day he died, there were five letters from Ricky waiting in her mailbox.

Carrying on
Dave continued plans to start a church back in Kenosha while Ricky served in Iraq.

“But I chickened out two weeks before Rick died. It was too hard, too scary. I didn’t think I could do it.”

When he got news of his brother’s death, Dave spent the next two days before he came home pouring his grief into a Web site — — that highlights Ricky’s life, including videos of his marriage and baptism, dancing with his niece and cracking jokes.

“It’s almost as if internally he knew his life was not going to be forever,” Dave said during the funeral. “Those who knew him, knew he was restless at all times. Up until his second tour, he didn’t get cable because he thought it was a waste of time when he could be hanging out with people.”

Dave decided during the memorial and funeral that he had to carry through with plans to start the church.

It’s what Rick would have wanted.

It’s the same church Kristen now attends. It has loud guitars and rock music, and deals with topics like sex and teenage pregnancy.

Kristen and Susan attended a 13-week grief seminar to help them deal with the pain of losing a husband and son.

“Each of our relationships is different,” Kristen said. “For myself, I visit his grave site, and that keeps me in one spot. And part of me wants to stay in that spot, but I know I need to move on, too.”

They both wear a black wristband with Ricky’s name.

A couple of months ago, Kristen took off her wedding band. It was done with gentle encouragement from the Nelson family.

“We talk about everything, usually around the dinner table on Sunday,” Lennie said. “We encouraged her for a long time. I told her, ‘Kristen, you’ll know when it’s time.’”

She recently moved out of the apartment she and Ricky shared, bought a home, and is a full-time student at Gateway Technical College where she’s studying culinary arts.

She also ponders a future without Ricky.

“It’s at the forefront of my mind,” she said. “Where do I go from here? I still get to live, and the things we talked about doing together, like buying a house, I do on my own.

“I met a boy,” she added. “I told him I’m very much a part of this family, and I would hope he understands that, and he does, so we’ll see.

“In the beginning, I thought I would be Rick’s widow for the rest of my life. But I realized there’s a reason I’m still here. Rick wouldn’t want me to mourn. Rick and I did have a conversation about that before he deployed, and he told me if anything happened, he wanted me to move on and take care of myself.”

During Ricky’s funeral, Dave said his brother’s faith was what helped the family cope.

“This experience has brought our family a new level of pain we’ve never known,” he said. “We’ve cried literally until we’ve run out of tears. We’ve hurt so much that at certain points, we’ve grown numb. But four years ago, Rick recommitted his life to Jesus Christ, and publicly made it clear that he believed.

“A few days ago, the guys he was serving with in Iraq held a memorial service for him, and word has gotten back to us that individual after individual stood up and talked about how open Ricky was about his faith and how he talked about God,” Dave added. “How especially on this tour, more so than even the first, he was vocal about his commitment to God.”

There was another rumor the family heard shortly after Ricky’s death. They heard it from one Marine, and then another.

Finally, they met Lance Cpl. David Doyle, who was wounded in the explosion.

They asked him if the rumor was true, and he assured them it was.

In the moments before the explosion, the three of them were singing “Amazing Grace.”
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